Spousal maintenance, commonly referred to as alimony, exists to address financial disparities that arise when a marriage ends. In many marriages, one spouse earns most or all of the household income while the other steps away from the workforce to raise children,...
When Does an Uncontested Divorce Become Contested?
Many people begin the divorce process believing it will be simple and cooperative, only to discover later that disagreements derail those expectations. Understanding when does an uncontested divorce become contested can help you avoid surprises and better protect your...
How Long Does a Contested Divorce Take in Minnesota?
One of the most common questions people ask at the beginning of a divorce is: How long does a contested divorce take? Unfortunately, there is no single answer. A contested divorce is, by nature, unpredictable. Some cases resolve in a matter of months, while others...
What Is the Difference Between Contested and Uncontested Divorce?
When someone begins the divorce process, one of the first questions that arises is whether their case will be contested or uncontested. While both types of divorce end with the same legal result, dissolving a marriage, the process, cost, timeline, and level of...
Cannabis Use and Parenting Time in Minnesota: What Parents Need to Know About Marijuana, Decision-Making, and Child Safety
As more parents raise concerns about cannabis and custody, Minnesota family courts are seeing a sharp increase in disputes involving marijuana use, executive functioning, and safe parenting time. This post explains: How cannabis can impact decision-making When...
When One Parent Wants to Move: Relocation & Custody in Minnesota
Few issues spark more anxiety in custody cases than relocation. Whether it's a job opportunity, a new relationship, or the desire to move closer to family, a parent’s decision to move,even across county lines,can dramatically affect parenting time, stability, and the...
Co-Parenting After Divorce: Tips for Making School, Activities, and Decisions Less Contentious
Divorce ends a marriage, but it doesn’t end parenthood. For parents in Minnesota, the real work often begins after the divorce decree is signed - managing school schedules, medical decisions, and extracurricular activities while maintaining stability for the kids....
Lommen Abdo Named to 2026 Best Law Firms List by Best Lawyers®
We’re proud to share that Lommen Abdo has once again been recognized in the 2026 edition of Best Law Firms, published by Best Lawyers®, one of the most respected peer-reviewed legal rankings in the country. This year, the rankings evaluated over 110,000 client...
The QDRO and Divorce in Minnesota: What Happens to Retirement Accounts?
When couples divorce in Minnesota, dividing property is rarely as simple as splitting bank accounts or selling a home. Retirement assets, 401(k)s, pensions, and other employer-sponsored plans, are often among the largest and most valuable assets in the marriage. Yet,...
Parental Alienation: Myth vs. What Minnesota Courts Really Say
“Parental alienation” is one of the most emotionally charged - and misunderstood - topics in Minnesota custody cases. Parents sometimes accuse one another of “alienating” a child, claiming the other parent is turning the child against them. Others feel unfairly...
When Income Changes After Divorce: Modifying Child Support in Minnesota
Life doesn’t stand still after divorce. Jobs change, businesses grow or struggle, children’s needs evolve. What once felt like a fair child support order may no longer reflect reality. Fortunately, Minnesota law recognizes this and allows parents to request a...
5 Costly Mistakes People Make in Minnesota Divorces (and How to Avoid Them)
Divorce can be overwhelming. Emotions run high, and the legal system can feel confusing. Some people make decisions during divorce that create unnecessary financial strain, weaken their case, or leave them unprepared for life after the decree is signed. Here are five...
How Minnesota Courts Decide Child Custody: The 12 “Best Interests” Factors Explained
Divorce and custody cases often raise one of the hardest questions parents face: “How will the court decide where my child lives?” In Minnesota, judges do not make custody decisions based on stereotypes or personal opinions. Instead, they apply a clear legal standard:...
Minnesota Divorce Myths That Could Hurt Your Case
Divorce is stressful enough without misinformation making it harder. Unfortunately, myths about Minnesota divorce law circulate online, through friends, or even from well-meaning family members. Relying on these myths can lead to costly mistakes, poor negotiation...
Hidden Costs in Divorce: How Overlooking Assets Can Derail Your Settlement
The Risk of Overlooked or Undisclosed Assets In Minnesota, marital property is divided “equitably,” which means fairly, not necessarily equally. But fairness depends on both parties having a full and accurate picture of all assets. Commonly missed items include:...
Why a Detailed Budget Is Crucial in Minnesota Spousal Maintenance Cases
When seeking or opposing spousal maintenance (alimony) in Minnesota, one of the most important—and often overlooked—pieces of evidence is your budget. A thorough, well-documented budget can make or break your case, influencing whether maintenance is awarded, how much...
Domestic Violence and Child Custody in Minnesota & Wisconsin
When domestic violence is alleged, courts put child safety first. If you’re entering a domestic violence custody battle—as a survivor seeking protection or a parent facing allegations—understanding how judges analyze risk, evidence, and each parent’s ability to keep a...
How to Split Assets and Debts in a Divorce
Individuals navigating a divorce are often faced with the complex task of dividing both assets and liabilities. Many clients begin by asking: How Is Debt Divided in Divorce? What does Dividing Debt in Divorce look like in practice? And how should a comprehensive...
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